Question-Pet Peeves

So I have a question for band directors and the wives. Maybe this bugs me more than it should and that could be the fault of my director. Does it bug you when your kids dance when the opposing band plays or cheer with the other team and their cheerleaders? I don't know why but that is one of my many pet peeves. I also have a pet peeve when a player is hurt for either team and the kids talk. We would get the stare to end all stares (love you Mr. Pry) if we made one peep. Mostly it was directed at upper class men because it was their responsibility to keep them under class men quiet and in line. I basically just stare either into the vast expanse or at the back of my husbands head. It never works. I guess it will always be a pet peeve and I will suck it up and stare into the vast expanse.